Our 2nd Annual Locktober + A Revised Contract
Him
We’re back writing again after a long hiatus. Life with 2 toddlers is f*cking hectic and we didn’t have the time or energy to write much.
Chastity is still a big part of our sex life, but we simplified out of sheer necessity. There’s only so much parental brain space. Over the past 6 months or so we have'n’t adhered to a super detailed contract. We followed one simple rule: I’m locked when she’s on her period, one week a month. Everything other than that is optional based on our energy levels.
Locktober is a special time of year and we want to ramp things up again, building on our experience from last year. I still haven’t fully unlocked the elusive hands-free prostate orgasm and it’s a major life goal. Recently, I read about the Mindgasm 30 day challenge where you completely refrain from touching your primary sexual organ for pleasure. No porn. No cage blowjobs. No ruined orgasms. Prostate pleasure only.
I brought it up to Mistress as a potential theme for 2025’s Locktober and she agreed a little too readily. “Let’s do it. I’ll still cum a lot, you’ll make sure of it. You’re getting pretty good with the strapon dildo and I like that it curves up, instead of down like yours. And if I need a real cock I’ll call Liam.”
(more on Liam in a bit)
If you’re a submissive guy like me, you’ll understand the delicious knife-twist feeling I got in the pit of my stomach.
Her
A year ago, I would’ve objected to a totally “hands off” Locktober. I really like making my husband cum. But I’ve started to really enjoy making him squirm in other ways. I realized that he gets insane psychological pleasure from being my plaything. I have my Hitachi wand, his tongue, and fingers. Oh, and Liam, of course 😈.
Side note: Let’s talk about Liam for a minute. He’s my imaginary lover who we made up for role play purposes. It’s a fun, safe way to explore cuckolding and humiliation-type fantasies. I designed Liam to push all my husband’s buttons. He is my husband’s insecurities and jealousies personified, from his looks to his job to his dancing skills. I enjoy teasing him with Liam in the bedroom, but it’s also fun to name drop during everyday conversation. It’s a little secret between us, and a fun way to make my husband’s face red and his cock twitch in public. If I’m feeling especially saucy, I’ll offhandedly mention Liam around oblivious friends or family.
For other wives out there, I have a tip. Think of your man in chastity like a knight in waiting. He’s powerful, dangerous, and yours to command.
If you want to be ravished, remove his cage and he will do so enthusiastically (consider using some numbing spray if he’s been locked for a while). If it’s not up to standards tell him exactly why and how to improve.
If you want to spank him mercilessly, he must take it and say thank you. Especially when it really hurts.
If you want to see him suck cock, mount a dildo on the wall (or use a strap on) and give detailed step-by-step (or lick-by-lick) instructions.
If you need chores done, make a list and put him in a maids outfit. It’s especially fun if it’s a chore he hates doing.
He will do all of these things and LOVE every moment.
It took me a while to get here and fully understand. Your commands and corrections will make him feel seen and accepted. As crazy as it might sound, creating Liam made my little slut feel seen. I knew him well enough to know his insecurities and create a triggering persona. And he likes being triggered like that. Even though he frequently (jokingly) says, “Why am I like this?!”
He wants to serve you. Don’t view his need to serve as weakness. See it as the ultimate token of his love and devotion for you. The cage is the physical symbol of that devotion.
There still are lots of fun things I can make him do to me during a “no touch” Locktober.
I can easily “survive” 30d, especially if the outcome is watching him cum hands free during pegging 👩🏻🍳💋.
Him
Amen!
One quick additional note. While it’s fun to write detailed contracts, we realized adhering to all the bullet points is hard in real life. Our chastity dynamic needs to be more spontaneous.
Based on that fact, we massively simplified our contract. After Locktober, I am not allowed to orgasm without her explicit approval or observation. If I want to masturbate (in any way), I have to ask permission. Caged or uncaged, my pleasure is hers.
Happy Locking!
